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    You are here: Home / Parenting / 7 Lessons Learned While Making Paper Boats

     

    7 Lessons Learned While Making Paper Boats

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    It may surprise you to know, that I struggle greatly with how to encourage my children's artistic development. I'm not a very good crafter or artist, but I do enjoy it and I want my boys to find joy in it also. I've been starting to try very simple, classic crafts as an easy way to encourage my kids to be makers. Recently my 5 year old turned paper dolls into Star Wars clone troopers but it hasn't exactly been easy going. Last week, while my older son and I folded paper boats I thought about how I was learning a few parenting lessons about how to approach crafting with my kids.

    Large paper boat followed by three smaller boats

    While my 5 year old was at camp (he goes to a 2 hour camp for two weeks) I suggested to Kiddo (age 9) that we make paper boats. Although he often declines my invitations to do a project together, surprisingly, my son readily agreed to fold the paper boats with me.

    I found a tutorial online (see below for the video!) and put it on my phone so we could both see it at our workspace. I suggested we start out by practicing with plain white paper and then move on to colored construction paper. After we made our prototypes we decorated them with little flags made out of toothpicks and tape. He seemed to really be enjoying himself.

    Folding paper boats and learning a few things along the way.

    When we worked on our colored boats, things started to go sour. The paper was obviously not a good fit for a folding project. It was hard to crease and it ripped during the last stage, sending my son into a pouting fit. In the end I rescued our session by bringing out a tray of water to test out our white boats, but the entire experience was enlightening.

    I reflected on what I learned during our paper boat-making session:

    Get as much set up ahead of time as possible. If I ask one of my kids if they want to do a project and then spend 15 minutes getting all the supplies ready they will have moved on to something else!

    One on one time is better. Art and craft projects are infinitely smoother when I have only one of the boys. I can focus on my child's individual personality and cater to his needs. When I work on projects with both boys, my perfectionist older son and my free-and-loose younger son inevitably clash. Our art session devolves into a sibling rivalry match and I have to referee so much during the day, why add one more thing to the list?

    Folding paper boats and crafting with kids

    Let him lead as much as possible. Since we were working from instructions, I asked him to read them and help me figure them out. I could see him take ownership over the activity and that he felt being "in charge" was an important job. I only jumped in when I could tell he wasn't sure what to do. When I made my folds, I asked him, "Did I do this correctly?"

    Help him with trickiest tasks. The hardest part for my son was getting a really good crease. I made sure to help him with that at each turn as it would affect how well each subsequent step would go. I can read my kids pretty well by now and I knew if I insisted he do it all by himself he would have thrown the boat down in frustration.

    Teach the understanding that "mistakes" are not always the fault of bad technique. Do not lose your cool or give up. When my son stomped away in frustration when his orange boat ripped on the last step I was tempted to throw in the towel, too. Instead I pointed that the white paper worked much better, the construction paper was simply to thick.

    Floating paper boats

    When frustration flares, distract and move on! When the orange boat ripped and he didn't want to fix it, I simply suggested, "Why don't we see if our white boats actually float?" I knew that anything involving water play would be fun.

    Keep trying. Some of you may leave a comment suggesting I have not accepted that my kids are not interested in arts and crafts, and why don't I just let them pursue their own interests for goodness sake? Of course I know that art is not my kids' favorite subject, but does that mean I should abandon it?  If your child doesn't like math, do you tell them they don't have to learn it? Of course not. I don't feel as though an art education is optional. It simply means, just as you would do with a child who doesn't like math, I have to work harder to find the key that will unlock their creativity. I don't ask that they become the next Picasso, just that they keep their minds open.

    And don't forget your video instructions to make that snazzy paper boat!

    Simple classic crafts to make with kids.

    Lessons I learned while making paper boats with my son.

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    1. Ann says

      July 21, 2014 at 8:45 pm

      You are right, there can be clashes with different kids. We sat down down do some drawing this weekend and had that happen. My son went nuts because he can't make cute eyes. Then he looked at his sister's art and really got discouraged. Somehow he eventually found his groove, thankfully.

      Love the flags!

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    2. Ticia Adventures in Mommydom says

      July 22, 2014 at 9:10 am

      My kids are more of the charge ahead and then go "Oops, there were instructions."

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    3. tinyGREATNESS says

      July 23, 2014 at 3:59 am

      Isn't it amazing how enlightening something as simple as sitting with a kid folding paper can be? And what a wonderful opportunity to teach problem-solving and leadership skills! I love it! Even if they're not into it at first, it's those moments where you're just hanging out that they will remember, don't you think? And I bet they'll pas it on to their kids 🙂

      I'm an art teacher and have to say paper has a life of its own - perhaps using the back of a spoon or a butter knife to run across the fold may help?

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      • Erica MomandKiddo says

        July 23, 2014 at 5:10 am

        Oh, that's a good idea about the spoon/knife. Thanks. I'll try that next time.

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    4. Erin says

      July 23, 2014 at 12:18 pm

      This looks so fun! I love your tips for dealing with frustration.

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    5. Chris says

      July 23, 2014 at 2:41 pm

      Sweet tips. Making paper boats seems like a great idea to do with the kids. I have been looking at this sweet crafts list I think you should check out. Maybe you can do some with them! http://blog.famtivity.com/summer-craft-paper-mosaics/

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    6. studyathomemama says

      August 09, 2014 at 12:10 pm

      Haha, so I definitely was thinking, "oh, we just made paper airplanes, maybe next we'll try paper boats..." and was pleasantly surprised to see some support and tips for dealing with frustrated learners. My daughter knows her mind, and I haven't quite figured out how to encourage her to keep trying something she has determined is too hard. I'm going to try these tips next time, and stop wishing that she will change!

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      • Erica MomandKiddo says

        August 09, 2014 at 12:14 pm

        I have 2 frustrated learners so I sympathize with the challenges! Hang in there. I hope the tips help.

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