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    You are here: Home / Parenting / New Year's Resolutions to Practice Family Kindness

     

    New Year's Resolutions to Practice Family Kindness

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    As you know, I consider teaching my kids compassion and kindness one of my most important parenting responsibilities. The start of the New Year provides the perfect opportunity to begin a conversation about new ways we can show kindness towards others.

    How to make family kindness new year's resolutions together

    I decided to focus our New Year's Resolution conversation on ways we can be kind to other family members.

    Family Kindness Resolutions for the New Year

    After school the kids and I started out by having a conversation about what things other family members did for us this year that we enjoyed. This was a fun way to remember the good times we had together. I asked the boys what each person did for them that they really appreciated. There was clearly a theme of spending quality time with each other! (Just a little reminder to us parents about what kids really want.)

    Make kindness resolution cards with your kids

    Then we talked about how we can use those examples to make resolutions to reciprocate that kindness. We went down the list, covering each grandparent, parent and sibling, choosing something we wanted to do for that other person.

    Make family kindness resolutions with your kids

    We decorated index cards and wrote down our resolutions. I had to keep the decorating simple since it's not always easy to motivate my kids to do arts and crafts. New Kid got frustrated with the writing part quickly (he's only 5) but Kiddo really got into creating his resolutions. It's wonderful to see his empathy develop. I also love how my 8 year old wrote "N.Y.R." on each of his cards!

    Finally we collected all the cards together and turned it into a book (see top photo) to refer to throughout the year. I'm looking forward to 2014: the Year of Kindness!

    More ways to grow kind kids and teach family kindness: 

    • Thoughtful Children's Books about Kindness
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    • A "Tip Jar" to Help Siblings Get Along
    • Family Harmony Tokens
    • The Giant Hug: A Family Valentine
    Make kindness resolutions with your family to start the new year off right.
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    1. katepickle says

      December 20, 2013 at 6:15 am

      What a fabulous idea! And you are right... that quote really says it all!

      Reply
    2. Melissa @ Mama Miss says

      December 20, 2013 at 9:08 am

      Love this idea - & the idea of the book & looking at it throughout the year!! Definitely adding it to our list of things to do 🙂

      Reply
    3. Carolyn says

      December 20, 2013 at 9:51 am

      Focusing on kindness towards family members is such a wonderful idea for a New Year's resolution! This book is now on our list for this year!

      Reply
    4. Carla says

      December 20, 2013 at 3:03 pm

      What a wonderful New Years Resolution...for kids and adults!!

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      • Erica MomandKiddo says

        December 21, 2013 at 8:20 am

        Thanks Carla, I'm looking forward to seeing how it plays out over the year.

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    5. Jennifer Fischer says

      December 20, 2013 at 3:23 pm

      Love this idea. Fabulous!

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    6. Megan Sheakoski says

      December 20, 2013 at 4:48 pm

      I ADORE this idea!!!!! Adore! Adore Adore!

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      • Erica MomandKiddo says

        December 21, 2013 at 8:20 am

        Thanks, Megan. Your awn acts of kindness are such an inspiration!

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    7. teachingyoungchildren says

      December 20, 2013 at 6:03 pm

      That is a really nice idea - and your kids did great with their resolutions. I hope you will all have a year full of kindness towards each other!

      Reply
      • Erica MomandKiddo says

        December 21, 2013 at 8:21 am

        Thanks! Me, too!

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    8. Asia Citro says

      December 21, 2013 at 12:12 am

      What a sweet way to start the new year off right! Love it and that is a great quote from the video!

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    9. belindambrock says

      December 21, 2013 at 12:59 am

      Thanks for sharing this--it's an important topic!

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      • Erica MomandKiddo says

        December 21, 2013 at 8:22 am

        Thanks Belinda, I think so, too. It can get lost amidst all the hustle of the season. I liked taking the quiet time to sit down and chat with the kids.

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    10. Cassie @ 3Dinosaurs.com says

      December 21, 2013 at 7:04 am

      Those are some great ideas! It is important to remember family.

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      • Erica MomandKiddo says

        December 21, 2013 at 8:23 am

        I think so too - after all, they are the ones who have the most influence on us!

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    11. Lauren says

      December 21, 2013 at 8:52 am

      I love this! I think we will be doing this as well. What a wonderful resolution book.

      Reply
    12. Ana says

      December 21, 2013 at 9:16 am

      Great idea Erica! It's really thoughtful and engaging.

      Reply
    13. Emma @ P is for Preschooler says

      December 21, 2013 at 4:22 pm

      "The Year of Kindness" - I like the sound of that! I love how the kids got involved in making resolutions 🙂

      Reply
    14. writersideup says

      December 23, 2013 at 12:58 am

      I love the meaningful projects you come up with, Erica 🙂 And this video is great! 😀

      Reply
      • Erica MomandKiddo says

        December 26, 2013 at 5:08 pm

        Thank you!

        Reply
    15. No Twiddle Twaddle (@Bethanyntt) says

      December 30, 2013 at 7:54 am

      I love this idea, Erica! What a great post!

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    16. Ann Treacy says

      December 30, 2013 at 9:56 pm

      This is a really nice idea. I love that it becomes a book. I might try this for our simple celebration tomorrow night!

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    17. Meredith @ Homegrown Friends says

      December 28, 2014 at 9:11 pm

      Love this idea so much! Can't wait to implement it in our home. Sharing on FB tomorrow morning.

      Reply
    18. Karen says

      January 31, 2015 at 12:35 pm

      Hi... my daughter and I are working on this project right now and not only is it a great activity to bring the family together, but it's great bonding time with my kids. We really enjoy decorating the cards and thinking of ways to be kind to one another as a family. Wonderful idea!

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      • Erica MomandKiddo says

        February 03, 2015 at 6:54 am

        I'm so glad to hear it! Thanks for sharing, Karen.

        Reply

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