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Teaching Kids Compassion {Super Typhoon Haiyan}

November 12, 2013

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I view teaching kids compassion for others as an essential part of my role as a parent. I want my kids to grow up to be compassionate, empathic, generous people just as much, if not more, as I want them to be book smart. The kids give daily to their tzedakah boxes, make charity part of their weekly allowance and we read books to teach about empathy, but nothing takes the place of conversation and action.

Teaching kids about Haiyan and giving

I had originally scheduled a gift guide post today but was having a difficult time pressing “publish” after the conversation I had about Super Typhoon Haiyan with my kids at the breakfast table.

I asked Kiddo (8 years old) if he knew what a super typhoon was and what kind of effect it would have on an island. The conversation progressed from there and eventually I asked, “If we can’t go to the Philippines, what can we do to help the people who are hurt?”

He went to his give jar and said he had seven dollars he could send to the doctors helping the kids. At this point I felt a bit embarrassed because I had to tell him he really had $30 since I had borrowed money from it when I had no cash in my wallet. (hides) He decided to donate all of it, “because so many people got hurt.”

At this point my heart was swelling. Not just because it has been so very, very heavy for the people in the Philippines but because so often I forget to look beyond the day to day frustrations of parenting (especially that fact that my kids seem to be spending most of their time bickering with one another) that I don’t realize yes, yes, my children are also learning compassion and how to be good human beings.

Before he left for school we looked online at the Charity Navigator website for organization suggestions. He chose Oxfam America and we pledged his money, plus additional funds from my husband and me. After that my husband took the boys to school.

I suppose this post may seem trivial to some. What is my son’s donation but a drop — a quarter of a drop, really — in the proverbial bucket? There is so much need in the world, and here I am, blogging about gift guides. The juxtaposition is ridiculous.

Have you talked to your kids about Haiyan and The Philippines? What was their response? 

*Image courtesy of NASA via Wikipedia


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by: Erica posted in: Parenting 9 Comments

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  1. Emma @ P is for Preschooler says

    November 12, 2013 at 9:36 am

    This post doesn’t seem trivial at all! It’s about a little boy who gave all he has in the way of money to people in need. Reading this, even I’m proud of him and I don’t even know him! 🙂 You’re raising an amazing young man there!

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    • Erica MomandKiddo says

      November 12, 2013 at 9:46 am

      Thank you so much Emma! I was quite proud of him.

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  2. maryanne @ mama smiles says

    November 12, 2013 at 12:23 pm

    What a great kid you are raising! We haven’t talked about it – we don’t have a TV and don’t watch the news (only read), and the kids don’t know about it. I will probably start telling Emma about things like this soon, though. It is a way to build compassion, and awareness of how very fortunate we are.

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  3. Jen Robinson says

    November 12, 2013 at 1:50 pm

    I agree that this isn’t trivial at all. This is important stuff! Good for you, raising kids who are compassionate. It’s not easy in today’s world.

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    • Erica MomandKiddo says

      November 12, 2013 at 6:01 pm

      Thanks Jen. It’s not always easy to talk about sad stuff but it’s important to me that my kids have a global view of the world.

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  4. Nina says

    November 13, 2013 at 11:14 am

    Thank you for this. I was born in the Philippines and spent my childhood there, and my relatives still live there. It’s not trivial at all, so thank you. And thank your kiddo! My heart swelled up as well 🙂

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    • Erica MomandKiddo says

      November 13, 2013 at 1:06 pm

      Nina, my thoughts are with your family. I hope they come through it all – my heart goes out to you.

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  5. writersideup says

    November 13, 2013 at 7:57 pm

    Erica, this was a perfect post and the polar opposite of trivial! For children to become well-balanced human beings it involves well-balanced teaching. Book-learning is only a part of that. Your example and the practices you’re instilling are obviously making the kind of impression on your boys you hope for, and you SHOULD be proud, not just of Kiddo, but of yourself as a parent 🙂

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  6. writersideup says

    November 13, 2013 at 9:29 pm

    Also, Nina—-prayers for your family and everyone in the Phillipines.

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